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Thanks - just as I found myself drifting into a rut I get the email about procrastinating - Yay it was what I needed right now! I have quiet time and a pen and some paper - watch out world!

Cheryl, New Zealand

26/11/2009

Hi Yvette,

While I read your latest newsletter on receipt I have kept it open in my Inbox since its arrival on Guy Fawke's day!  I've done that because your messages make so much sense and if I am faced with my Australian conscience every time I switch my computer on - who knows I MAY just act!

I should explain:
- I'm a collector and hoarder;
- I've been blessed with a very good memory which has largely obviated the need to make all that effort to really organise my life.
- My interests include DIY, Computers, Technology, Photography, Electronics and cooking (believe it!).

However!!!! Over many years I have periodically realised that true satisfaction would come from a higher level of organisation. I frequently contemplate a world of labelled containers and files with supporting indexes which would enable me to locate any item almost instantaneously. Heaven on Earth!

O.K - Having identified the need and its solution why on earth hasn't it been tackled?
- Why do I hang on to a collection of faulty TV's, VCRs, computer monitors and dinosaurial computer boxes?
- Why when I know that the only way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time haven't I started? Too many elephants perhaps???
- Why being retired, typically I should have plenty of time on my hands?

WELL!
- Many retired people I know are bored out of their minds and have real problems filling their days.
- I am NOT one of those, I have many interests competing for my time and in 15 years of retirement have always wondered how I found time to work!

Why have I written this?
- Firstly it is an acknowledgement of the value of your wisdom Yvette;
- It has forced me to think about "Getting Organised" and record some high level issues;
- Printed out and prominently displayed above my computer it will HOPEFULLY spur me to action one of these days!!!!
- When it does (ahem!) Yvette I promise to let you know - BUT please don't hold your breath!

Kind regards

Dave Heard

 19/12/10

 I trust things go well for you and your family and you are fully on top of

planning for Xmas. How silly of me to doubt!!
When I responded to your email just over a year back and wrote as below I
must confess it didn't take long for me to consign the thought of all that
effort to the bottom of my priorities.
Now for the good news. All along I had a problem with dumping my old time
tech items - I just couldn't throw them out and didn't want to incur the
cost of repairs when I wouldn't use them again. Last week I decided to make
some space by donating some books to an animal charity and while I was there
learnt they accept non-working VCRs, TV's etc and where repairs cannot be
justified they sell them on to a reclamation facility. This was just the
trigger needed and I have arranged for collection next tuesday. Their
charity shop accepts all manner of things for re-sale so I'll be sending a
variety of other items I'll never use again.
You have probably covered this point in your erudite missives BUT if not, my
problem may be a clue to what holds people back from that step down the road
to "Getting Organised".
I knew what was holding me back but didn't know how to handle it.
I'm now well into sorting out my storage and have a couple of days to
identify other donations and having destroyed many reams of totally
disorganised paper I'm starting to see the proverbial light at the end of
what was a long, dark tunnel!!!!
As I said when I wrote previously an Elephant has to be eaten one bite at a
time. I just hadn't identified how to go about taking that vital first bite.
It's going to take a few more days to sort out (I have too many cupboards I
admit) before I can declare mission accomplished but I'm now determined to
get there!
In the course of this exercise I have used the following
approach;
- For each shelf/cupboard/drawer sort the discards from the keepers;
- Be realistically ruthless!;
- Put the keepers back in the area they were in;
- Do that for each area;
- DO NOT move (at that time) any item to a more logical location - that
can come later and will only serve to confuse matters if attempted now;
- As you go along appreciate the space you've created it provides the
motivation needed to carry on!;
- As I was concentrating on the chaos I had created in my "Hobby Room" I looked at whether the location of furniture was sensible and found a more logical place for an item which obstructed access to one of the cupboards. This was particularly satisfying as it provides greater flexibility in where I can locate items I need ready access to.

I now have two days to finish identifying items I'm sending to the charity and I'll then start on the pleasurable task of sorting and finding logical homes for my "keepers" in the enlarged space created.

Yvette, I have no idea how many people write to thank you for your inspiration but please add me to the list.
Your periodic newsletters ensured I didn't forget what I had to do and caused me to identify and solve the problem responsible for my procrastination. Thank you!

May I wish you and yours a merry xmas and a prosperous, healthy new year.

Kind Regards
Dave (Heard)


17/1/11

Hi again Yvette,

 Thanks for coming back to me and your appreciation of my achievement.

Unfortunately I'm resident in South Africa so the charity's identity won't be useful I'm afraid but perhaps a parallel exists in Australia.

Please feel free to use my experience as you wish in your testimonials area but may I ask you to include overcoming the first hurdle I identified and had to overcome before I could take those further bites of the "elephant" I had to eat.

Just as an addendum, I'm off to Kruger National Park on Saturday and only this morning I realised I'm going to have EMPTY cupboard space when I've packed my photography kit etc. in the car.

Equally satisfying is having that space waiting for it on my return home.

Lastly, I have to emphasise the feeling of satisfaction and well-being de-cluttering has brought to my life.

I'm still a hoarder but a far more organised one!

 Grateful regards,

 Dave

Excellent article. Very thought provoking. This is stuff we need to review no matter what stage of "organization" (mental or physical) that we may be in at the moment.

Please keep it coming!

Marge B.
Saint Pauls, NC

Wow Yvette ... your how to overcome the overwhelm strategy article really spoke to me .... i've been there for ages (most of my adult life, I think, and i'll be 50 this year!)

I saw a delightful quotation and used it for my facebook status recently, and it helped me and others! ...

Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass.
It's about learning to dance in the rain - Psalm 118:24!

Thanks for sharing your wisdom so freely with others.

God bless you!

Tiggy Goodwin
Cape Town
South Africa

Hi

Your article on feeling overwhelmed was just the perfect arrival in my inbox. It felt like the universe had come quietly stealing into my life and heard my desperate pleas. It felt like the article was written for me. I've been rather depressed lately and feeling overwhelmed plays a large part in disabling me.

It was very interesting to look at the pay off side of it as well. Very instructive, but don't know if I got to the bottom of it really. I think I'm still carrying my mum around on my shoulder and I'm never "good enough", "don't manage" etc etc etc I wish I could give her the permanent brush off...

Reading the article has made me think and analyse what you said and now I feel a bit lighter, more hopeful, more capable, more able, more alive, more happy (joyous even) and empowered.... I want more more more of this and most of all, I want it to stay there!! I feel I have so much capability and things to offer. But its like I'm locked up and held back... all my life I've never "broken free" and had the courage to follow my heart. Instead I've been locked into working some 44 odd years in jobs I've never wanted to do... only out of necessity.... now I guess that's why my health is not so good!!

Better than any therapist you give of yourself and time so freely. What an inspiration to me you are.

I'm going to go online and have a look at your book. I'm sure it has lots of helpful hints (having read lots of the testimonials on your site) to help me mobilise the creativity, caring for the environment and "look out here I come" juices.

Yours in trust

Di Quilliam, New Norfolk, Tasmania, Australia

Hi Yvette,

I do so enjoy reading your newsletters. This months was most inspiring. I'm so happy to hear you are doing well with your Life Coaching course and can't wait to get more updates with the knowledge you have learned.

I quite often get overwhelmed and finding making a small list and congratulating myself when they are done very helpful. Though I'm not sure I would say the words out loud. lol Thinking of the feeling as a choice is something I had not heard of, and may need to mull over for a while but it really make sense doesn't it??

Just thought I would let you know. A little positive feedback can go a long way.

Take care

Charmaine, Yangebup, WA, Australia

Hi Yvette, here's a great big thank you for helping me to sort my home. I haven't been able to paint for some time now and you made me realise that it was because my studio was so cluttered that my 'Muse' was blocked. I have spent the last week decluttering and getting my studio tidy, everything I need to hand and other things filed and catagorised. I feel so free now and am looking forward, with excitement to painting again. What would I do without you.

Best wishes from

Glenis from Plymouth, Devon, England

Hi Yvette, 

Thanks for the great newsletter, just at the right time.  Over the last five years I have begun to organised my house. Always was practical but three years ago, a new kitchen gave me the incentive of dumping all the excess bits and pieces, I had accumulated over 30 years. It's wonderful, my cupboards have things in the right place, with baskets for herbs & spices and I used several plastic  vegetable containers from old refrigerators and placed items like light globes, car cleaning items, etc and labelled, they sit on top of the cupboard in the laundry.No time lost looking for things now. In recent years with deaths of my mother and mother in law, I saw, with brand new sight, the extent of what can be only classed as piles of unwanted items, 67 pairs of stockings ? Photos of the unknown dating back to 1920,  in albums or loose all contained in 9 large archive  boxes, have now been reduced to 3. The clearing out of stuff that went to charity shops, auctions for the pictures, vases, cutlery, ornaments, furnishings has yielded me with an insight as to what baggage we can carry around with us.  I am only dealing with this at 60 but I am sharing it with my children so they do not continue to hold on to unwanted "things" or do the "long search" for papers that they should have on hand, car registrations, tax files, etc. I enthusiastically recycle everywhere and find places who want things, eg, paperbacks to the local library. I am also the recycling guru who looks after the office I work in and find great places for everything not wanted by the employees.  White paper to a preschool, used stationery to the local university, magazines to a hospital for their long term patients,  who all appreciate the effort I put in plus nothing goes to waste.  The building I work in, has now taken on some of the ideas I have come up with and are very keen to keep it going.  Love your work, great to get the updates, 
Best regards
 

Pat,  Padstow, NSW, Australia

Hello Yvette

I want to congratulate you on writing this story, Finding Pleasure in Your Routines. So often we're so pre-occupied in the "doing", we forget to take pleasure, so it's a very timely reminder. Thank you.

Cheers

J M Brown, Carindale, Queensland, Australia

Hi Yvette,

I love your newsletters. They are so clear and sensible. You are helping me and I imagine, many others. Hope life is great for you and your family.  I did read your ebook. It was fab. I do need to re read it though because there are many suggestions in it which will make me more organised and ultimately make my life easier.x
 

Lesley Trueman, Swindon, UK

Hello Yvette,
Thanks a lot for your new newsletter I am glad you are better and also can work again. The subject is very good for me right now, since I have nearly finished this semester of study, with a lot of paper all over the place or better piles and piles from research essay writing etc. There is no good habit I can come back to, since my habit is piles and piles. A habit I have to try again and again to change. Your systems are very helpful, soon I will have to attend also to my e-mail and other computer folders too. I never thought it would come to that !!!! I remember you had a newsletter about that before....I will search for and read for assistance.
Thanks again and friendly regards,
 

Mica huberus mick, Wellington, NZ/Aotearoa

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